Say what needs saying. Leave the fight out.
Email your ex through Kept Civil. It takes out the blame, sarcasm and personal jabs, keeps every fact, and shows you the calm version before anything is sent. Their replies come back the same way, and they don't need to sign up.
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Please pick up the kids at 3pm Saturday from my mum's. Please be on time.
James
How it works
No new app to learn. You keep using your own email.
Sign up
Add your email and your ex's. You get a private address to write to them.
Write as you normally would
Email that address. Don't worry about the tone.
Check the calm version
See the rewrite and every fact it kept. Edit it if you like. Nothing goes until you approve.
Replies come back calm too
Their emails are rewritten the same way before they reach you.
Built so you can trust it
You approve every message
Nothing is ever sent in your name without you seeing it first.
Every fact kept
Times, dates, amounts and requests stay exactly as you wrote them, and we flag anything that changed.
Privacy matters
Messages are rewritten using OpenAI's API, which does not train on API data by default. Our stored message content is deleted after 30 days. See our privacy policy for provider retention.
Threats aren't softened
Threats and safety concerns are held, not rewritten, and the person they're aimed at is told.
For both kinds of break-up
Co-parenting
- Pick-ups and handovers
- School, clubs and costs
- Holidays and birthdays
Sorting out the practical side
- Who keeps the sofa
- Rent, bills and the deposit
- Collecting belongings, and the pets
Calmer emails start with the next one
It takes two minutes to set up.